Do You Know How to Avoid or Resolve Conflicts in Your Relationship with Your Man?

by Lyn Smith (UK)

Today’s Tip – Resolving conflicts

My ex-husband and I divorced after 23 ‘calm’ years, and I subsequently met my soul mate Paul, only to find that despite having a very passionate and intimate relationship, every 3 – 4 weeks we’d end up having big arguments, I couldn’t understand why, and after having such a peaceful relationship previously, I knew it must be Paul’s fault right? Wrong!

Believe it or not this took me 3 – 3½ years of (sometimes very painful) experiences to learn and finally grasp, that the issue of resolving conflicts has a very specific sequence and order, I just needed to create some Polarisation and discover how to handle it in an empowered feminine way (not a disempowering masculine way!)

(Photo by Charlie Foster on Unsplash)

Source: iCN Issue 24  (Relationship Coaching); page 50